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Standing Date

Date night, decided. Every time.

Adelyons Software LLC

Date night ideas for couples, one tap

“What do you want to do tonight?” “I don’t know, what do you want to do?” Twenty minutes later you’re back at the same taco place, again.

Standing Date drawing one date idea for tonight as a ticket

One tap, not a quiz

Standing Date draws one real date idea from six kinds — talk, play, make, move, taste, explore — filtered by in or out, cost, how long you have, energy, a kid asleep at home, and the season. There is no questionnaire and no list to scroll: one tap, one idea. Don’t love it? Redraw, free and unlimited. Say yes and it becomes your plan.

Works in any town

Every idea names a kind of place — never a specific business — so it works the same in a small town as it does downtown. Nothing here depends on a city database that only knows five neighborhoods.

A real plan, not just an idea

An idea you keep becomes a plan: steps to follow, what to bring, and real conversation starters — free with every plan. A map link finds a place nearby, one tap adds it to your calendar, and a share button sends the plan along.

Keep a standing date

Pick a cadence — every Friday, every other week, monthly, or your own interval — and Standing Date becomes a real date-night planner: days since your last date, a streak that only bumps when a date actually happens, and anniversaries and key dates with a reminder before each one.

One phone is enough

Everything above works fully on one phone, alone — no account, ever. If your partner wants in, link their phone with a six-character code and your standing-date cadence, current plan, jar and memories move between both phones, live. Nobody signs up, and creating a code needs Standing Date Plus while joining one never does.

See it

Standing Date's Tonight screen drawing one date idea as a ticket Standing Date's Plan screen with steps, a bring list and conversation starters Standing Date's Standing screen showing a kept cadence and streak

Free, and what Standing Date Plus adds

Free, forever: the daily draw across a 150-idea starter library, every filter, a full plan, your own date jar, a standing-date cadence with reminders, key dates, and a scrapbook of memories. Nothing free today moves behind the paywall later.

Standing Date Plus adds the full 600-idea library and four seasonal decks (autumn, holidays, a heat wave, a rainy day), Surprise dates — plan a whole night in secret, locked behind your phone’s own screen lock, then send your partner one clue at a time — three challenges (A-to-Z, twelve dates of the year, one of each kind), a printable scrapbook yearbook built from your whole history, and creating a partner-pairing code.

No ads, ever. No sexual content, no truth-or-dare, no teen cheese — an adult, warm tone built for couples who already live together. No sign-up, no email, no password.

How it stays honest

The idea library is hand-written and reviewed; picking one is deterministic scoring on your phone, not a chatbot or an LLM deciding for you. Costs are always words — Free, Low cost, Mid, Splurge — never a dollar figure we made up; the only price you ever see is your store’s own price at checkout.

Get Standing Date

Standing Date is finishing its store review and is not published yet — these links will go live the day it is.

Privacy, in one paragraph

Standing Date is local-first: your ideas, plans, jar, standing cadence and memories live in a database on your phone, and there is no account. If you choose to link a partner’s phone, exactly four things move between the two of you: your standing-date cadence, your current plan, your jar and your memories — never your Surprise-date clues, which stay private to the phone that wrote them. The full detail is in the Privacy Policy, and Delete synced data explains how to remove it.